September 13, 2009

Dear C......

Dear C,

You have been on my mind a lot lately. You see, I've noticed that our relationship has taken a turn. From the beginning, we have always had a give and take relationship. Actually, in the beginning ....you were the one giving so much more. With your help we found the biggest joys of our lives. You were instrumental in that path...God used you in big ways.

Then there were various health situations that came up in our lives. Again, you gave and gave.....helping us find what we needed. God used you again in a mighty way. Because of that, I will never doubt what you are capable of. You've introduced me to some fabulous friends....for that I am so thankful. I'm thankful that you have helped me connect with friends and loved ones on days that I do not have time to pick up the phone. You really have kept me connected dear C.

But....and you knew there would be a but.....you have also taken from me. You are such a flirt and seem to encourage me to waste time. As I go about my day, you beckon to me....."come sit with me and play...just a little while longer". I look back at our visits and wonder.....was there something more important that I should have been doing? You have allowed me to escape a sometimes busy day.....but not always in a positive way. Some mornings, I visit with you....and realize that an hour has passed, or more. I should have been doing something else.....I could write a long list of other things that I should have been doing.

I blame myself for this, dear C. Truly.....It's not you....it's me. I've realized that maybe we should not visit in the morning.....you tend to suck my mornings away. Because of all the good our relationship brings.....I am not willing to say good bye. But, I do know that something has to change. Time is passing quickly.....my children are growing and changing.....my marriage is growing and changing..... Dear C....I see my potential, but are you hindering it or helping it? Are you a positive or a negative influence?

Well dear C......my dear Computer......it's time to make breakfast......read a book with my kids.....get dressed and start my day. I hope to see you later.....much later.

Your faithful friend,
Mimi


**While watching Brer Rabbit with the boys today Ross asked what "brer" meant. I answered that I didn't know. He responded...."ask the computer, it knows!". Mr Computer gives as much as he takes ;)

18 comments:

Beth in NC said...

Ha, good post! So true too. I have finally had to allow life to come first. This corn maze has me busier than I ever imagined.

Have a blessed Sunday!
Beth

Mich said...

I liked this...

I understand...

Yet, hoping you don't give up "sitting and playing" altogether. :)

The Toll House Cookie said...

It's true how quickly time flies sitting here. There have been days when I've been tempted to disconnect. I don't know what the answer is. (My mother sets the timer for the kids....that's crossed my mind!!!) All I know is I'd miss the connection I have to others who have taught me so much. Hope you find a way to manage!!

really.truly said...

Oh no, I'm not going to give up my "playtime" ;) Just going to keep it in balance...execute some self control. I really do appreciate the computer and the good that has come from it :)

Bunny, THE PARIS HOUSE said...

You are so right..time does fly on the computer. I try and set aside certain time. Because of my business I need the computer, so I have found my blackberry helps me alot. I can answer emails, texts etc. all while waiting at dr's offices, sitting in carpool line, etc. It saves me time when I get home.
But, Please don't stay away too long, we would all miss you terribly Mimi.
Happy Sunday
now I must get off the computer, Oliver wants to play hide and go seek :)
xoxo
Bunny

Tiffani said...

so very true and so crafty, you! ;)

Finding the balance is indeed hard...but sometimes I tell myself, "y'know at one time this thing was not in your lap" and I survived just fine!!

Here's to more family time and less "C" time for all of us!

Carla said...

Oh my gosh, for a minute there I thought you were breaking up with me! That was really cute.

Jana Guild said...

Oh, this is SO true. The days and years are slipping by. Great reminder.

:)

Darcie said...

Glad you are not going away, but I find this also a daily struggle. It's like all things...too much is not too good. I have to use it MORE in moderation, and I have found that I love the timer in this. I do literally set the one on my microwave so that I HAVE to get up and walk to turn it off. It has SERIOUSLY helped me. Hope you find a good balance for you...looks like you already have by putting family first. :)

Bona Fide Mama said...

Gotta start using a timer too. Stinkin' internet and FACEBOOK is pure evil!

Life with Kaishon said...

Ha freaking ha : )

Theta Mom said...

Awesome post Mimi! It realy is so true...I find myself with C in the mornings way more than I should, too. And ever since I started hanging out with T (twitter), that's been a time sucker, too!

Pilar said...

You are so, so very right!

I have been gone for a couple of weeks and I can tell how much time I was taking away from my family.

Have a great day!

Alicia said...

At first, I was like, "What????" Then after awhile, I knew there was going to be some kind of twist to this!

Good one Mimi..you ALMOST had me there!

Amber said...

SO TRUE.
SO TRUE.

It is crazy how much time is sucked away by these little machines, but it happens SO quickly.

Good for you for making the effort to do something about it!

Lorrie said...

What a great post. I don't know if you've noticed (or anyone else) but I've cut down my computer usage quite a bit! You are the better for it!

whimzie said...

Oh, balance! You're a tricky, tricky thing. And I've always been kind of clutzy.

Hoping we both find the sweet spot of moderation.

E @ Scottsville said...

I don't have a "C". Mine is"My Square Headed Boyfriend" as my husband so sweetly puts it.

I do love my square headed boyfriend. I must admit!!!

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